too much sleep? hee

hee.. alright.. had a good rest... woke up in the afternoon today.. end up spending the afternoon on msn.. seriously, i too wonder how come i have so much to chat.. geeez...

had my first meal at 4 plus when my mum came back with chicken rice.. i know.. she's a happy mama when i'm home.. can see the glee in her face.. =) came back to the pc... chat a little.. and then drove out for mum to pack her dinner.. came back.. stoned awhile.. and.. erm.. fell asleep.. heehee.. i know it sounds irritating if you're a working adult.. but yah.. i'm enjoying this lifestyle tho it's like only 1 week i can do this... lazily woke up again at about 10?? downloading pics from a common blog with some friends.. chat a little.. got some nice songs from a sweet dude and downloaded them for mum to her mp3 player.. chat some more.. then went for supper.. erm.. or late dinner...

how nice a day.. not exactly productive.. but therapeutic for the human mind and soul.. simplicity is such a bliss i never could appreaciate it more.. pretty much wide awake at this hour.. not usual for me.. if i was up this late... would only have been hanging out somewhere or rushing some assignment.. decided to come in here to put in this aimless entry... i like this feel.. really.. no load my back.. just peace.. lazily peaceful..

just a thought.. from a conversation i had with a dear friend.. men are from mars.. women are from venus.. pretty true in what the book says i think.. tho i haven't read it.. men and women pretty much think, feel and behave differently.. and some traits within each gender are very prominent.. i really understand that there are difference between the genders... but.. somehow.. relationships are human issues.. really... emotional stuff... i wonder if learning these differences.. are hmmm useful for everyone.. you see.. if it's learnt and understood.. rightfully i thought it would help each other be more understanding.. or even empathetic towards each other.. but again.. because of the difference.. it's like.. reaction to the reading differs... for example, men says: no you don't understand, and you won't because we perceive it differently.. then women would say: i know it's different... that's why.. i'm explaining.. well dunno how to explain my point.. prob it's a so called woman thing? hee.. really don't know.. somehow.. i do however believe that every woman has her guy-ish characteristics... and man alike, have their womanly traits.. we're afterall human.. some needs and desires are still common.. vanity, attention, love, care, assurance, company... even the most ego guy would need these.. or no?? to be heard, to be understood, to make choices, express views and make decisions or take the lead.. different women shows such in different areas don't they? i prefer to believe that there are some skills that men are better at.. and ladies have a different forte.. and the generalisation is simply based on majority.. honestly, all our values or even behaviours are largely socially constructed aren't they? the way we learn, what we're exposed to as the norm very much shapes certain things in our minds... just a thought.. taking the content of book.. and applying it on a different society.. does it necessarily apply? perhaps it does in variable ways.. well my opinion has no grounds since i haven't even read the cover! but i do feel that men and women characteristics can differ according to cultures as well...

k.. this is quite enough i guess.. i really should turn in.. less i wait for sunrise in couple of hours time.. sweet dreamz and God bless all =)

~ mel ~